Quantum Mirror Coaching
A Powerful Process of Self-Enquiry to Unleash Your Life.
The philosophical basis of my work
At the present moment, awareness is unfolding as All-That-Is.
Perhaps you are already awakened to this Unfolding Pre-sense or perhaps unknowingly, you are still being controlled by mechanisms fixed on the past, impeding you to co-create an alive relationship, a functional family, a dynamic operative work place, or perhaps you are beeing runned by a self-image that hinders your self-confidence or your capacity to meet your possibilities such as communicating soulfully with others. You could answer sincerely to these questions: How do I live my life? What do I really want?
I invite you to take a pause to consider the following pointers:
1. - Awareness allows us to discern what we want, from what we don’t.
Stedy Stillness which is basically all what we long for, it is not the result of doing something to ‘get-it’ but of the conscious intention to abide in awareness.
By practicing this intention we can access naturally, to self-confidence, steady stillness in action and joy without object within any kind of context.
2. - Generally speaking, everything we feel, say, and do originates from a belief that fuels it. We filter what we experience through our concepts, beliefs, self-definitions and self-images. Core beliefs determine how do ‘I’ feel about ‘me’ and about others, how we interpret situations, how we deny what is there and how we do what we do.
Under examination we can let go of the old beliefs and self-images which fuel discomfort, stress, anxiety, guilt, passive aggressive anger and chronic suffering…
3. - By feeling and understanding our emotions we develop Emotional Intelligence.
Our energy is proportional to our capacity to feel alive and to experience oneself as autonomous. Our emotional capital is reduced by stress, by hidden anxiety and by withholding the pain we feel about the convictions we entertain and about the self-images we keep in the dark.
When we make contact with pure feeling, those definitions are revealed and can be discarded. Emotional intelligence is the ability to be aware of the concepts we entertain that makes us feel the way we feel. It is the capacity to understand what it is about a situation that makes us feel unhappy or dead.
4. - The ‘observer’ of ‘me’ is not what we are. The unconscious-evaluator-observer in us, is just a mechanism. We identify with whatever the ‘evaluator-observer’ presents to us about our identity: ‘You are not good enough’, ‘something is wrong with you’, ‘you are not whole’… If we could see clearly that this ‘evaluator-observer’ is just a mechanism of our brain and that it is not what we are, what ‘he’ sees or say, wouldn’t affect us. To find out who we truly are, first we need to see who we are not. We are not ‘the observer’, neither the images he observes.
5. - Our definitions of time influence how fearful we live in the present moment. We all believe in the concept of time. We believe to be an "I" subjected to the concept of time, subjected to birth and dead. For many, time seems to be crucial in taking decisive action. For others, a ‘past-made-conclusion’ seems to be the truth today. Others think that the actual situation is going to go on ‘for ever’. Others imagine catastrophic events ‘in the future’. However, right now we are living in the precious present moment. The capacity to focus on awareness and remain focused on it in the present moment, changes our perception of reality.
6. - By focusing upon our internal insight we receive the answers we need.
We are all committed to success. Many ignore what their ‘ideas about success’ are.
They ignore that our intentions and desires are subjected to 'higher authorities', to hidden core-belief systems given to us by others in the past.
By investigating these ideas and by applying discernment, we can have access to our own internal insight.
7. - Steady Stillness increases with the ability to be aware of your character fixation.
Your character-fixation brings about the correspondent automatic responses, dysfunctional behaviors and ineffective communication. To identify this character and its automatic responses and behaviors is fundamental. To see your character in the light of awareness allows you to realize that it does not define you, therefore you can let go of guilt. Awareness of the character-fixation enables you to create a quiet center of attention from which you can discover who you truly are and who you are not.
8. - Social awareness refers to empathy, the capacity to appreciate all human beings. Some people believe that others are what they imagine them to be; in fact we don’t really see others, we see their images of them. When we recognize how we function emotionally we become able to understand how other people function emotionally as well and can appreciate their opinions without judging them.
Empathy is essential for the well being of intimate relationships and family; in the work place it enables us to tune into the emotional dimension of our work place or business situation.
The Dynamics of Quantum Mirror Coaching
The most effective way to accompany you in creating and achieving your desires, intentions and projects, is to provide you with self-empowering tools aimed to increase your capacity for attention, sensing, self-awareness and self-management.
This time-proved practice will help you address ongoing challenges at work, finding peace with catastrophic events from the past which trigger stress and fears still today, building energy and emotional capital in your intimate relationships as well as in your team-work, find your sense of freedom in action, increase your intuition, build more satisfying relationships and become efficient and effective at achieving your desires and dreams. In my highly interactive 3-Day Intensive program I create a safe environment where you will be completely accepted as you are.
Through a system of questions and guided contemplations, you will uncover and discard hidden beliefs and limiting self-images that fuel emotions of unhappiness and ineffective behaviors at your work place and as a leader.
My focus is on accompanying you to implement the attitude needed for Self-Enquiry.
This attitude consists of being incredibly present to your own process, sensing your feelings, welcoming what you say, not having an agenda about what you should or shouldn’t say, think or feel and creating a sense of deep care about your own life.
Together we will focus on the insightful questions of the Quantum Approach, helping you to see where your subconscious attention is fixed, what your automatic responses are and how the process of identification to unwanted patterns happens.
You will unveil the central-core-belief that runs and controls your entire psychology.
You will practice detaching from the mechanisms of survival such as thinking in vicious circles, doubting about yourself and defining yourself through false self-images.
Through this powerful awareness process I will give you along our dialogue, the tools for increasing your self-esteem and empowering yourself.
The Outcome of the 3-Day Intensive Coaching
- You will be equipped to enquire into your automatic responses and self-images at will.
- You will engage a powerful attitude where you are caring towards you.
- You will understand yourself much more deeply, and make significant personal changes by questioning and dismantling your own beliefs and unconscious definitions.
- You will take the first step towards dismantling all what you are not.
- Toxic emotions as guilt, shame and chronic stress, fear, anger and sadness, are going to disappear.
- You will find valance, peace and joy.
People experience the following benefits among others:
- They focus on what they truly want
- They are able to identify facts and face fears
- They maximize their capacity for communication and action
- They make clear and insightful decisions
- They relate with others with greater ease & depth
- They strengthen their confidence facing their self-doubt
- They communicate with honesty and without hesitation
- They unleash their beautiful life and joy
If you are interested, the first interview of one hour is free of payment. That can be done by e-mail and by telephone.
The 3-day intensive includes 6 sessions. Each session lasts from 2 hours and half to 3 hours.
Price: 1200 Euros for individuals. For enterprises and companies: 2500 Euros.
The cost of individual sessions not included on the 3-day program: 70 Euros per hour.